Love in marriages
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Written by Chidera Amazu
Read carefully, placing yourself in the same position, reminiscing over the issue based on what you’ve seen or heard in your environment. Very important I must say, “Please comment”.
I happened to be in the midst of fathers one good morning. It’s become a custom to listen more and say less these days. So guess what, I had to listen (pardon me).
It just took a minute for me to get a summary of what was left of their hearts to vomit.
Mr. A was not happy with his marriage. He complained that he was exhausted with the whole marriage issue. To him, if not for the children, he would have annulled the marriage. Why? Is it really for your children? Hmm, on what base does your proposal before marriage lie?
Mr. B increased the rate of combustion as he gave his points. To him there is nothing like listening to the opinion of the woman at home ‘your wife’. He sees that as being foolish, “Why would I even tell her I’m building a house? Probably I could tell her one out of my every project. Ahh! Women?”. I have many questions to ask this man, please help.
Mr. C obviously had lots to pour out. I was …at this point…, but don’t worry, I didn’t punch anyone. Mr. C had a very big issue with trust, I mean trusting his wife. He believes anytime she collects money from him, it must be to buy expensive clothes for parties. The funny thing about this is that my Mr. C was the one to always take her to these parties? So what’s up with him? He agreed with Mr. A. If he gets tired nothing stops him from going outside (Going after other ladies), it (His marriage) still lasted, just because of the children. Please, help me ask them questions.
Everything boils down to the issue of love in marriages. I’m not a marriage counselor, not certified per say, but at this point you can picture me to be one.
Love is divine, and it’s a very powerful tool for the foundation of every marriage. Not the sugar in my tea, or the butter in my bread love, but the without you, it’s not complete type of love. A marriage that only death, not issues, separates. Can we really find that? Of course!
A society gets better when the families become better. 50% of families have issues and divorce, 30% keep managing, inflicting pains on the children’s psyche, but 20% learn to solve these issues and no one is hurt because they understand divine love.
What of our ladies? Ask yourself questions. What are you doing about yourself now?
In this case, a “Foundation” is needed-LOVE
The “Materials” for construction –GOD’S word
The “Watchman”- GOD
Everything is just GOD. GOD is love
What actions have you resolved to take? Your nation awaits your response.
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